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From nice night out to finding out your best mate`s "wife" has been having an affair with someone else for two years (and some before that too)...and no one else knows. Baby involved too. (but baby is mates`) Long story around it...
I need to tell him - but what would you do? How long do I give her to spill her guts?
(she knows I know now)

Answers appreciated...on a postcard maybe.

Cheers

G



I find it kind of funny, I find it kind of sad
The dreams in which i`m dying are the best i`ve ever had.

You have to be so careful, you could end up losing your mates friendship if your not.

How do you know that he does not know about the affair(s), he maybe putting up with it because he loves her?

Did you say to her either you tell him or I do?

IMHO its best to just be ready to offer support and a shoulder to cry on, goodluck with it.

mmm chocolate

There`s no way this one ends well.
Really depends on your mate - is he the kind of bloke that just wouldn`t want to know about it, or would he rather know and end it.

Oh and before doing anything make sure your mate is 100% innocent party in this.

Contact the Jeremey Kyle Show :D

He`s not only my friend but my best friend.
Problem being is that although he hasn;t been the best partner in the world i.e lazy and a bit selfish, he hasnt been with anyone else or hit her or been violent.
But i know she is going to try and split up with him but put the blame on him so she gets house and custody of kiddie. This is what makes it unfair.
Especially as its still carrying on.

She knows she has this week to tell him everything or I am going round!

Is this good?

I find it kind of funny, I find it kind of sad
The dreams in which i`m dying are the best i`ve ever had.

Invite them round for dinner and see what happens. :/


Is that the time? Damn you Xbox 360!!!!

Well, in my expereince (mate is cheated on by absolute bitch of a wife and my mate was cheated on by his GF) the longer you leave it the worse it is.

Oh, and they always deny it, so if you do say get someone to back up your story so you ont look like a crank.

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But i know she is going to try and split up with him but put the blame on him so she gets house and custody of kiddie
I think you`ll find she`ll get everything anyway, irrespective of fault/blame.
There is no defence for her cheating, but being selfish and lazy is a surefire way to start losing someone and it`s very disrespectful too. Maybe he still has a chance of keeping her if he tries to get his act together?


Good luck to all of them involved..

Neil.

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I`m in a bad episode of Neighbours!Damn - I thought you were going to say you actually appear in an episode of "Neighbours" - they were over here filming recently...

Well it all kicked off last night - she told him (a pack of lies but...)
he stormed out and I had to spend 2 hours in the pouring rain looking for him.

So the plot thickens and more things are coming out of the woodwork about several affairs, several One nighters and more lies.

So although his lazyness only started a coupl eof years ago she`s been playing him for over 8 years!

Next step? He`s staying with his mum and dont know what to do next???

Any suggestions? Does he take her back? (although she is seeing this guy still)
or does he break all toes exceot daughter....agggghhhh

great start to a new week...




I find it kind of funny, I find it kind of sad
The dreams in which i`m dying are the best i`ve ever had.